How do you stop a dog from getting anxious when you show affection?

Hey all, I’m dealing with a tricky situation and could use some advice. My 2-year-old Goldendoodle, Willie, gets anxious and sometimes aggressive whenever my wife and I show affection, like hugging. I’m a dog trainer myself but haven’t been able to find a permanent solution. Anyone else dealt with this? Any tips for a positive, long-term behavior adjustment?

Yeah, I’ve had a similar issue with my dog. Have you tried using redirection techniques? Like giving Willie a Kong with peanut butter?

Lisa said:
Yeah, I’ve had a similar issue with my dog. Have you tried using redirection techniques? Like giving Willie a Kong with peanut butter?

I’ve used that before for other things, but I’m hoping for something more permanent, not just a distraction.

Lisa said:
Yeah, I’ve had a similar issue with my dog. Have you tried using redirection techniques? Like giving Willie a Kong with peanut butter?

FYI, the Kong method can work as a starting point while you build long-term habits. Just a thought!

Maybe it’s about bonding? Who spends the most time with Willie? Dogs sometimes act out for attention.

Ramirez said:
Maybe it’s about bonding? Who spends the most time with Willie? Dogs sometimes act out for attention.

Good question. My wife walks him the most, but we both spend a lot of time with him.

Ramirez said:
Maybe it’s about bonding? Who spends the most time with Willie? Dogs sometimes act out for attention.

Bonding could definitely help. Maybe you can take over more walks or do extra training sessions together?

Ever tried a calming diffuser or toy? Those can sometimes ease anxiety during high-stress moments.

Smart said:
Ever tried a calming diffuser or toy? Those can sometimes ease anxiety during high-stress moments.

Not yet, but I’ve heard mixed things about those. Do they actually work?

Smart said:
Ever tried a calming diffuser or toy? Those can sometimes ease anxiety during high-stress moments.

They worked for my pup! It won’t solve everything, but it can be part of a bigger solution.

Sounds like you’re looking for something deeper. Have you considered consulting with a vet for advice? Sometimes they can suggest behavioral therapy or other solutions.

LillyGrace said:
Sounds like you’re looking for something deeper. Have you considered consulting with a vet for advice? Sometimes they can suggest behavioral therapy or other solutions.

Yeah, I might need to explore that. Just hoping to avoid medication if possible.

LillyGrace said:
Sounds like you’re looking for something deeper. Have you considered consulting with a vet for advice? Sometimes they can suggest behavioral therapy or other solutions.

Totally get that. Some vets focus on non-medicated strategies too. Worth asking!

Oh, btw, have you seen this article? How to Stop a Dog From Getting Jealous When his Owners Hug or Kiss: Dog Gone Problems It’s got some good tips for jealousy and anxiety in dogs.

SHAWN said:
Oh, btw, have you seen this article? How to Stop a Dog From Getting Jealous When his Owners Hug or Kiss: Dog Gone Problems It’s got some good tips for jealousy and anxiety in dogs.

Thanks! I’ll check it out and see if there’s anything new I can try.