Why won’t my corgi warm up to me… but loves my wife?

Seeking help
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Got a new corgi about 3 weeks ago, and he’s 7 months old now. The thing is, when I’m around, he hides and doesn’t want to interact at all. But when my wife is around and I’m not, he acts like a totally normal puppy—follows her, plays, all that. As soon as I walk into the room with both of them, he barks at me and then runs off to find a safe spot.

I’ve been trying to win him over with treats and even hand-feeding him his food, but nothing seems to be working. I’m starting to think maybe he’s protective over my wife? Anyone else dealt with this? What should I do?

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Sounds like resource guarding to me. He might see your wife as ‘his person’ and feel like he has to protect her.

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CoachKate said:
Sounds like resource guarding to me. He might see your wife as ‘his person’ and feel like he has to protect her.

Yeah, that’s what I was thinking too. Should I give it more time or try something specific to fix this?

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@TomHenry
Maybe try spending time with him when your wife isn’t around. Like sit on the floor, offer treats, and keep it super low pressure.

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My dog was similar when we got him. Took a couple of months before he trusted me. Don’t stress, it just takes time.

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Vincent said:
My dog was similar when we got him. Took a couple of months before he trusted me. Don’t stress, it just takes time.

Good to know I’m not alone. Did you do anything specific, or just let him come around on his own?

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@TomHenry
I just kept being around him, giving treats, and playing when he seemed comfortable. Eventually, he warmed up.

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What do you mean by resource guarding? I’ve never heard of that before.

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Asher said:
What do you mean by resource guarding? I’ve never heard of that before.

It’s when a dog feels like they have to protect something, like food, toys, or even a person. They get defensive or possessive.

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Have you tried any toys? Maybe a ball or something interactive like a puzzle toy could help him see you as fun.

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jordansmith said:
Have you tried any toys? Maybe a ball or something interactive like a puzzle toy could help him see you as fun.

Not yet, but I’ll give it a shot. Any toy recommendations?

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@TomHenry
Kongs are great for treats, or even just a simple squeaky toy. My dog loves those!

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I don’t think it’s aggression, just nerves. He’s still adjusting. Keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t give up!

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Evans said:
I don’t think it’s aggression, just nerves. He’s still adjusting. Keep doing what you’re doing, and don’t give up!

Thanks! I’ll keep at it. Hoping he comes around soon.